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When I was in High School, we had a drive-in on the corner, where we could go and eat nutritious lunches of french fries and candy bars.  At least, they were an identifiable food, unlike the cafeteria.  I basically grew up on potatoes.

My mother once took me to the doctor and said, “All I can get her to eat are potatoes.”  He pointed out that I was extremely active, basically healthy and in good shape so stop worrying mom.  I should have kept eating potatoes.

There was one thing I was addicted to, besides potatoes and it was a version of a peanut butter cup.  I think made by the same company.  The difference was that the covering was a harder form of peanut butter over the softer peanut butter inside.

Smoothie Peanut Butter cup

Memory alert:  I was remembering this allllll wrong.  The Smoothie peanut butter cup is what I must have eaten and it is butterscotch, with junks of peanuts, covering the peanut butter center.  It was soooooo good.

Read more about it here:  http://candyaddict.com/blog/2007/07/19/retro-candy-review-boyer-smoothie-peanut-butter-cups/

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I know a person.  I’ve known her all my life.  I have always thought she was a loving and fun loving, a kind person with a big heart.  She welcomes almost all friends to her door.  She has always been a bit bigoted.

She began emailing my neighbor, years ago before Facebook and all the networking sites started up.  By e-mail she became a long lost friend to my neighbor.  And, she was.  She would have done anything for my neighbor.  She used to be a friend to all.

I don’t know what has happened to her over the years, nor how her heart has filled with so much hatred.

Lately, she has taken to forwarding political apps on Facebook.  They are the cruelest, most illogical, often bigoted, bits of hatred you can find.  They are pictures reminiscent of the old time Little Black Sambo era, where watermelon was a code for race and excuse for hatred.

She is a flag-waving American and proud of it.  She is proud of this country and all that created it.  I guess that even includes “All men are created equal,” but I’m not sure she remembers that part.  She is also a Christian, and yet she seems to have forgotten the “Do unto others as you would have them do until you.”  Right now, she just spouts hate.

I did not realize how much seeing it was affecting me every day, until someone else I knew mentioned they had blocked or removed her because they were tired of it.

Today, I blocked this “dear” person.  I don’t mean to abandon her, if she is slipping.  I don’t mean to offend her.  I just cannot take it anymore and today, when I checked my Facebook and all that was on was teenagers writing poems and pictures of little children from relatives, not someone using the word Stupider to show how bright Sarah Palin is, I was happy again.  I no longer had to see her spouting a belief that I will never agree with, no matter how much she tries to cram it down my throat.

You cannot force someone else to believe in your religion by sending four apps a day of “the daily picture of Jesus” or whatever else they have, and you cannot change their politics by belittling the political leaders that they believe in.  It is insulting and only stirs up bile.  If you wish to blog your beliefs, that is fine.  I can choose to read or not read your blog.  But, there should be different rules on a site like Facebook.  There should be a rule for being civil and not cruel.  There should be respect for other people’s beliefs, without trying to cram your own down their throat.

Let’s get back to a little bit of civility.

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Where is my head lately?

I have forgotten everything I used to know.  Two years of pre-law, two years as a law clerk, probably around 14 years as a legal secretary and dummy me, writes that we can actually sue some arm of the government: I was going for the whole shebang here.

It was the thought of all those $35 overdraft charges that had me panicked.  All those things that debit out of the money that is supposed to be deposited on the third.  When you live on Social Security, there is no extra in there to cover next month.

I was delusional.  High on fear.

IDIOT:  You can’t sue the government.  Well, not without their permission anyway and like, “THAT’s going to happen.”

Oh, well, it’s nearly over.  The wealthy still get the tax breaks.  I still have nothing to get a break on.

Life stays the same and I can move on to something, perhaps, more fun to blog about.

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